Well the transfers came in and I am going back to the city for next year. Such a huge relief has hit. I can feel like I am in some control of my life now. It still was very emotional opening my email about the transfer, as it still feels like I am walking away from my wife. I certainly accept that she is the one who left me and I have tried very hard for the last 11 months to do positives for us, but it simply hasn't happened. Whatever the case, finding out about the transfer, opened up a lot of emotions when I did read it. I have decided I won't be telling the W about the transfer, and if she does ask/texts then I will wait the 48hrs, ask the forum and still probably feel that it is no longer her right to know these things.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
