The major issues that I needed to work on as pointed out by my w when she left were financial stability and intimacy issues. I am doing pretty well financially right now and saving money. The other issue I have done a lot of reading about. I brought it up to my therapist and she gave me a few tips, but I really need w back in he picture before I can make real progress there.
On the other hand I have done a ton of GAL. Spending lots of time with friends, racing sail boats, going to the beach, and enjoying to beautiful part of the world that I live in. I also have rally stepped it up at the gym and I am in very good physical shape.. There were times over the summer that I may have been doing a bit too much GALing (the not quite as healthy kind of GALing) but I have mellowed out a bit now.
All is good, I would just prefer to have my w back.
Me-45 W-44 T-7 years M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated) Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)