1. Should I ask to meet in person? I kinda want to see her eyes if she is going to permanently end our marriage, and I want to have the dignity of being told instead of over text. Or should I just say, "OK thanks, see you on October 7." And stay completely dark?
2. If we meet, should I ask her why she changed from one week saying she loved me and wanted to be with me, and some very romantic/flirty gestures, and hugs ....to being "done"? Or just say nothing? I honestly just want to make sure I'm doing the right thing.