Hello there...I would also point you to Denver_2010's threads. He had an OM sitch and I think you could probably learn a thing or two (or 100) from reading them. Here's where it all began:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...229#Post2114229

BITS
M: 35
W: 35
T14, M11
D9, S6
ILYBINILY: June 09
Unofficially Separated (long distance): 1/2/11
W came home: 3/17/11
EE: July 2012
Dropped the rope: Oct 2012
Piecing: April 2013
Not piecing: April 2014
Stuck.