Well, W just texted me - she got the paperwork switched over from divorce to dissolution. She also said she was not considering dismissing it anymore, she didn't want to talk to me Friday, and she thought we should just go our separate ways. So, I go dark, and she goes the OTHER way. Sheesh.
I told her that I had agreed to sign and I would - but I wanted to make sure she was making the right decision - since she had made statements of complete love last Monday, and we hugged and I kissed her neck this past Friday, that it seemed like maybe more thought was merited. Also, I have been completely dark since Saturday - not a long time, but a good start at least.
I told her I wanted we meet in person because this was too important a decision to make lightly.
So, I will go dark until that discussion if she agrees, then dark afterwards. If nothing else changes, then Oct 7, it'll be final!
Feeling a little blah; I'm an optimist, and I've been pretty down on this trying not to get hopes up. The only thing I could do is fight the divorce - which would force her to turn it BACK into a divorce. But that's just going to make her mad. But the dissolution makes it a VERY short timeline, basically three weeks.
