You're doing very well. The way you dealt with the visit sounds perfect and your wife's actions / reactions were textbook.
Haven't said whether you're reading the DB & DR books yet. You should do. The information given will be pretty much the same as the advice you get here.
You do need to accept that this may well be a long process and as I've said it's very much about you working on yourself. You need to be the best person you can be ( for all the right reasons ) to give you the best chance of a) reconciling with your wife & b) staying reconciled.
FF999
ps off to the Canaries tomorrow so will be off-line for a week. Funnily enough will be meeting my ex W over there with ex MIL and ex SIL's. Only ex W knows i'm going so reaction of the others will be fun to watch.
Me 48 W 49 D19, S17, D14 Together 25yr, Married 22yr Me checked-out July 10, back Sept 10 W checked out Nov 10 Separated Dec 10 ILYBNILWY 2nd Apr 11 We're finished + D bomb 17th Apr 11
