Originally Posted By: FRLI919
And he wont disappear out of her life, even though he gave me his word he'd walk away if she tried to go back again, which I stated earlier he didn't, so his word is sh*t.


Don't accept the word of honor of some stranger who you know is actively engaged in an affair with a married woman. His life is already built on lies.

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Or any advice on what is going on in her mind or what I should do?


What is going on in her mind is a violent, raging storm of emotions. It's crazytown in there. You can't make sense of it, so don't try. SHE can't even make sense of it. She will do and say things one day and totally contradict them the next. Sound familiar?

As for what you should do, read DR. Read Sandi2's 37 Rules. Detach from your wife. GAL (get a life). Leave her alone. Work on yourself. Personally if it were me I would also tell her not to ever approach you about reconciling again unless she has ALREADY broken it off with her BF. She just keeps getting your hopes up and then dashing them to the rocks. I'd put a stop to that.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57