NQ, you can always get a chain for the door like I'm going to do if I can't get the key back off him Well done for your decluttering plan I always think it looks so bare when their stuff has gone. I've still got a fairly empty book case in the living room, mainly because it's too heavy for me to move on my own and H won't do it. He can be quite stubborn at times, the lawnmower is still in the garage waiting to be fixed! I've just packed up some more of H's books in 2 big bags waiting to be collected next time. If he doesn't take them then they're going on the garage waiting until I can get to a boot sale You should do that with your H's stuff NQ, flog it! Revenge is oh so sweet When my H left me he took most of his stuff out of the house when I wasn't there and I came home to find a bed and a chest of drawers gone. I was finding things missing for days afterwards! Even recently I still find things that aren't there anymore and it's been 5 months now! He's still got a lot of his stuff here that I need to get him to sort out or dispose of, preferably for me to flog CP, I feel for you when you said he helps himself to your food. My H does that as well and it's not like I've got a lot of money to feed him as well as us two as I've not got a job yet. Mine's been a 5 month slow bleed, lol. Eben when I'm decluttering my own stuff I come across something of his. I'll get there eventually, I just need to spend some time decluttering and not having to do any paperwork for a change!
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!