I think you are still doing quite well. And he is saying nice things to you without you prompting or asking - WOW.

How nice for you. Keep on doin' whacha doin' Hope!

Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.