NG - The shoes won! They were fantastic but they were very hard to dance.

My friend got me an aged whiskey that I've very excited about!


Interesting conversation with my new friend last night. Just a recap - our last hangout she informed me that she was seeing someone.

So we talked about going camping together awhile ago. I brought it up last night and then asked if she wanted to open it up to friends and her girl.

When she said sure - why not, I said it was her call.. whatever makes her comfortable.

Her response back was that she thinks I would really like her girl and she's not apprehensive to have us all hang together, but for some reason she has a weird feeling about it and she can't place it.

Also went on to say that I'm a shrewd observer of human behavior and I might see something between them that she doesn't.

I asked her what she meant by it - and she said she couldn't say.. just an odd feeling, not a big deal, but wanted to share.

Needless to say I validated, didn't try to tell her why I thought she had an odd feeling. Hooray to DBing.

It's a fine line - part of me wants to fight for her and say - "Your odd feeling is because you like me silly".

The other part is totally into letting people figure out their own feelings and not trying to "fix it".

I guess we will see how the story continues to unfold. I'm not very worried about it.. unless she pulls away.. which at the end of the day - I have no control over anyway. It would just really sukk.


M(f): 43
D'ed: 8/12

Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.

Love at all costs because you are loved well.