My wife and I have recently decided to separate. Unfortunately (for financial reasons) this is an in-home separation. We are in separate beds and give each other as much privacy about our individual comings and goings as possible. I am also using the "180" guidelines. My biggest question I have is when using the 180 how much affection (if any) should I be giving her? I am hoping to make this marriage work. Could someone give me some advise on this point and anything else you think may help with this separation.