One giant leap forward! - Part 6

[T1000]

If your looking at it like that my win can be W driving, her win can be she gets rid of the kids or gets the satisfaction from helping them see their father.

Now we're getting somewhere. Except the win for you is you don't have to drive so much-the win for her is she gets a free weekend. She may not give a squat about helping them see their father and that's not your issue. Present it that way, with no guilt, shame of judgment.

How would you present it to her?

She has had the weekends free without doing anything up to now. I honestly don't think anything could be said that would present it where she would have any interest.

And I have to ask, after reading Fartlitre's post, do you sometimes argue just to argue?

I used to do it a lot. I don't feel like I have been on here. Maybe I don't realise.

I am going to have to drop this for a while now anyway. I just got a letter telling me I can't remortgage because W has a Matrimonial Homes Notice on the house and it can't be done.

I have emailed her to ask about it.