One thing I do not do is nag and he is aware of that I don't.
You may think you don't, but...
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I have asked him numerous times to go to his PCP and get physical and get his T count, but he refuses.
That's nagging
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I have also asked him to seek private counseling as well. Once again, he refuses.
And so is that. I know you're probably trying really hard to communicate in your way, but men communicate in a completely different manner. His perception of what you are doing is that you are nagging him. Have you read the 5 Love Languages? That's a great book for learning to "get your way" through other means. And again, RetroV. It'll teach you how to really communicate your feelings with each other. You'll come out of it shocked at how poor your communication skills were up to that point even when you thought you were a great communicator.
