AnotherStander, thank you for responding.

One thing I do not do is nag and he is aware of that I don't. I have asked him numerous times to go to his PCP and get physical and get his T count, but he refuses. I have also asked him to seek private counseling as well. Once again, he refuses.

H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)