If your looking at it like that my win can be W driving, her win can be she gets rid of the kids or gets the satisfaction from helping them see their father.
Now we're getting somewhere. Except the win for you is you don't have to drive so much-the win for her is she gets a free weekend. She may not give a squat about helping them see their father and that's not your issue. Present it that way, with no guilt, shame of judgment.
How would you present it to her?
And I have to ask, after reading Fartlitre's post, do you sometimes argue just to argue?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
