One giant leap forward! - Part 6

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Hill to die on-that she do some of the driving.

I never have to make that decision if I don't want to.

I don't understand this at all. How can it not involve a decision?

What scares you about being a chump? And if it's only in your eyes, why do you see yourself that way? Why judge yourself so harshly and call yourself names? Is that how you were controlled in the past?

Why will it fail, if she ends up driving how is that a fail?

Because you can't control other people. Do you think she'll end up driving if you demand it? She might once or twice but will it be sustainable? What will happen the next time she gets angry?

This can't be win-win. Originally when I started doing all the driving it wasn't win-win.

There was a win-win, you got to see your kids-She didn't have to drive.

What would motivate her to want to do some of the driving. Open your mind, if you just say there is no win-win, you're done.