That's the spirit. It's his choice, so let him do all the heavy lifting as it were.

I know my H is having most of his meals cooked for him - he's paying for room and board so the older couple he's living with do provide his food (although from his comments I gather her cooking isn't as good as mine laugh ) - however he's having to do his own laundry. That probably doesn't bother him though - he was an "at home dad" for six years by choice and he did all the cooking, most of the cleaning and laundry during the week. I only did that on the weekends.

I'm considering spending one Sunday while he's here visiting S13 in the kitchen doing a load of batch cooking for the freezer. Let the smell of home cooking that he's used to waft around the house wink. Maybe that's just an evil streak showing through smile LOL


Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks