No, we have not gone to counseling. I cannot seemed to find a good one. The last one we went to together did not help us at all. She tore us apart even more.
I tried communicate with him yesterday and he blew me off. He said that he did not have time for this and for me stop listening to the voices in my head. I didn't respond at all to him after that.
Right now, I am feeling really lost and how to handle things.