It's crazy how they suddenly develop a sense of what is right and what is wrong.

On a similar subject, I was texting one night to my mother and my H observed me texting, not knowing it was my mother. He seemed to be staring at me as if I was doing something wrong. I made no mention of what I was doing. Then he went downstairs. A few minutes later he came back up and said, like it was out of the blue, "so how is your mom doing". I thought well how did he know,...then I realized he had gone downstairs and checked out our cell numbers online to see who I was texting. (This is what I had done to discover his PA - I no longer do this because it is just not right).

Also the other night, I mentioned I wouldn't be going to our kickboxing class, of which he and I both do, because I had some things to do. He got quiet and asked later if it was because I had to work. I said no, I just have some things to do. I was actually taking some me time and running some errands and going to talk with my son about school stuff. But he kept poking around to try and find out what I was doing, like he thought I was going to go out and see someone.

So I just let him wonder. Curious, ain't it?


Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

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