NQ, I am dealing with exactly the same issues right now, regarding H packing up all of his things! I know how you feel, I get edgy as well when he comes by in the evening to pack up things. I just don't even like having him in the same house. He came over a couple of nights ago and I told him he might as well pack a weeks worth of clothes to bring to his brother's house. Then he was putzing around downstairs packing himself a lunch for his work the next day. Arg! I imagine eventually he will be buying his own groceries.

I have this strong urge to pack up the rest of my H's belongings.. I would feel better if I did for sure, but I am going to leave it for now and he can do all of the work himself!!

Have a great day,
CP

M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.