Rather than focusing on all of these things that your W has been doing, what have YOU been doing with your life? If your W continues to see you as being available and not having much of a life, she won't see you as an option.
I also have to ask. Are you sure there isn't someone else?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.