This sounds like what my H went through when he was losing his connection with me. He was isolated, didn't have many friends to talk to, was angry about work and the stupid people he had to deal with, and would take out his anger on my son for very minor things.
Then when I became depressed I felt very much like you describe your wife, she sounds depressed. It's hard to recognize because you think are dealing, when you really are not. She feels disappointed in people and you are the main target right now. She is speaking from pain and is not making a whole lot of sense right now.
Hang on to rollercoaster Dragon.
I know she's depressed. She does have IC, for what little it's done in the last nine months. She has justified moving out and even filing as her IC told her to do it. (Again, don't believe what she says right?)
As I gain my equilibrium, I could have held on to the roller-coaster for many more months, but I feel like her filing has put on expiration date on the ride. Depending on the terms, it might only be 2-3 months.
Rather than focusing on all of these things that your W has been doing, what have YOU been doing with your life? If your W continues to see you as being available and not having much of a life, she won't see you as an option.
I also have to ask. Are you sure there isn't someone else?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
She apparently "neglected" to tell her attorney that I would be picking up the paperwork. Now it's too late, I will be served by a sheriff. I live in fear of the door bell or knock that delivers the cold, hard reality of my situation. I know drinking is not the answer, but I need something to relax this abdominal cramp that won't go away.
Rather than focusing on all of these things that your W has been doing, what have YOU been doing with your life? If your W continues to see you as being available and not having much of a life, she won't see you as an option.
I also have to ask. Are you sure there isn't someone else?
I have been socializing more, making a few new friends and reaching out to old ones. I have taken the occasional weekend to get out of town. Not much, I know.
As for someone else, I cannot say. I am no longer involved in her life in any real way. I can say that the person I knew wouldn't even consider dating someone until the divorce was final (that's how she was with me after my first marriage). However, I no longer know this person who can be so hurtful and assign me all the blame.
Usually when a person moves that fast in getting a D, they have someone in the wings which is why I had to ask. Just be sure you're not being taken advantage of.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
Usually when a person moves that fast in getting a D, they have someone in the wings which is why I had to ask. Just be sure you're not being taken advantage of.
I appreciate that and I wish there was some way to know for sure. I would be a lot less resistant to the process if I knew there was a PA.
I was served by the county sheriff. Grounds for divorce: Irretrievably Broken with No Possibility of Reconciliation. How can there be no possibility of reconciliation having never tried?
Sorry to hear that. I honestly think you should double-check to be sure there's not another person who is taking any money that the two of you have saved together.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
