Thanks JonF, I finished the rest of the post, thought I was still on moderation! LOL

Thanks for your input. I need to learn to be more detached and not push him so much. I've learned everytime I do he steps back and gets cold feet.

You are right that I need to let him come to me, it's just hard when I see positive changes and then I push and we go back to that distant dance.

I have learned my lesson this time and wont bring up the R again! I will not push him to reconcile or to start over etc.

Thanks for your thoughts, I really appreciate all the input!

M 30 H 31
T 12 M 4
BD 4/2013
S 5/2013
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