Moving forward together from a mess

[cbtdad]

Thanks LTH and AS!
I really appreciate it. We had our MC appointment today and it was the best yet.
We have set appt every Tuesday at 3pm. I really like that.
The MC is really starting to get W to open up with her emotions. My wife is crying, laughing, smiling all the same time. My eyes are so open to things she shuts down about and how my verbal abuse caused a lot of her to bottle up and hold it all in. It's really eye opening.
We are doing EFT couples therapy and its just the beginning. But I'm really excited where we are headed at the moment.
On another note, OM is not happy that his friends have become such good friends with us. He told them them, "why are you hanging out with them. She is crazy" the husband said he told OM, "yeah, she was crazy at the time. She definitely wasnt herself with you" lol
I thought that was funny. My wife made friends with them and I am glad she has. We hang out every other weekend. We are even taking a couples trip next weekend. Husband even asks me for some marital advice and tips on how W and I got to that point. I told him do not put your marriage on auto-pilot and do not take your wife for granted. Read 5ll and find out what her language is.