Originally Posted By: TryingToDo180
ooo I'm not that organised, lol. Weekends is busy enough as it is without cooking all weekend, lol.

I was thinking I'd spend a Sunday in the kitchen cooking, with the smell of home cooking wafting around the house while H is visiting S13. Or is that just being mean smile Might make him think again about what he's doing and what he plans to do in future smile

Originally Posted By: TryingToDo180
OK just looked it up if anyone is interested smile If your spouse has left and has his name on the deeds then you can't change the locks. However, someone posted on another forum that I can put a chain on the door to stop him getting in when I'm not there smile Guess what I'm going to buy tomorrow? hehe smile You can get these chains that you can lock from the outside just before you close the door and put the lock on. Nice one smile

That sound's like a good plan smile .


Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks