Hello Bond....If you mean what exactly was my birthday message it was as follows: -----, Happy Birthday, enjoy your day! I also added an emicon bd cake (its small) with animated candles. Simple thing gmail has with in its email service. I took you what you had said and kept it upbeat and short. I did not put my name to it either. Now as I said I will go back to being dark n/c. I also kept in mind NO EXPECTATIONS. ALthough it would of been nice for her to say thanks. I know I did the right thing and I feel good about it.
Hopefully this is what your were asking about....With my Bday in 3 weeks I am accepting she will not do the same. Since she seems to be n/c herself now I do not expect a bday greeting from her.