You know TTD, I think that now I have accepted things for what they are it's got to be about me and my 2 little girls (dogs). They are great dogs and would never think about walking away from me...lol...I have also tried to stop guessing what W is thinking as she is doing the WAS script thing. That is all I need to know now. It's amazing to me how there really seems to be a science to this. If she truly hates or is done with me I have no control over that. I will be staying strong knowing occassionally there will be bad moments.........
2old, you are so right about being a science to this.
Originally Posted By: 2old
so I did indeed email the short HB and of course nothing back. Why am I NOT surprised...The good news here is I had absolutely NO EXPECTATIONS......I did the right thing and I know it. After a month of n/c I peeked out for just a moment and now it is back to being dark and no contact.
You did the right thing. The accepting of no expectations is good. But more importantly you can feel proud of being a good person who is doing the right things.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
