The hard part for me personally is the not knowing for sure if she is, or not, I just don't "know", just a slight suspicion...I am a facts and details person... so this is another perfect chance to practice detachment, letting go, patience, acceptance, unconditional love and trust in life itself.
And let it be, let her be so she can figure out whatever she needs to figure out herself.
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm