lol that sounds like the same prob I have with my H. He goes on about independence then says he can't afford to take his son out for lunch and I have to fund his lunch. Also this toing and froing to my house when he wants to kill some time. Well if he wants independence then he'll just have to sit in the car in future, lol. I'm seriously thinking of changing the locks, but that's my story not MH's smile


H47 me48
T22 M21
S20 - Got high functioning autism
3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!