I was reading a bible lesson on having balance between faith and conduct. When these 2 are out of sync, or unbalanced, you can never experience happiness. Well my H is living out of balance because his conduct (having affairs, lying, betrayal, and deceit) conflicts with who he project to the world.
Perhaps you should apply that lesson to yourself instead of your H since DB'ing is all about working on ourselves and leaving our spouses alone to sort through their issues. Do you feel your recent conduct was appropriate? Or is it unbalanced and out of sync with your faith? Remember what Jesus said about removing the splinter from your neighbor's eye? What are you supposed to do BEFORE you do that?
