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I could sit here now and think I will do all driving just because W doesn't want to, to me that is giving up. Why should I be running myself ragged, leaving work early and spending hours on the road when she just gets to chill out at home. I'm not having it if I help it.
It's not about punishing her or winning it's about sharing the responsibility.


Giving up what? There's no contest here unless you make it a contest.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss