I could sit here now and think I will do all driving just because W doesn't want to, to me that is giving up. Why should I be running myself ragged, leaving work early and spending hours on the road when she just gets to chill out at home. I'm not having it if I help it. It's not about punishing her or winning it's about sharing the responsibility.
Giving up what? There's no contest here unless you make it a contest.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss