It's not that I can't do the driving or she can't do the driving.

I don't want to do it all. She doesn't want to do any of it.

I want to be a man that doesn't let his XW run rings around him which she is currently doing and only I can stop that.
She has been controlling me for a while now and it's been working very well for her. I'm not saying I want to control her but I don't want to be walked over either.

I could sit here now and think I will do all driving just because W doesn't want to, to me that is giving up. Why should I be running myself ragged, leaving work early and spending hours on the road when she just gets to chill out at home. I'm not having it if I help it.
It's not about punishing her or winning it's about sharing the responsibility.

I did read that book, I loved it because it was so short and to the point.
It's not until I just read them again after you wrote them that I am much closer to being that than I was.


M36 W31
S4 S2
T5 M4
BD Jan12 S July12
Recon Sep12-Nov12
ILBINILWY Jan13
OM x 2 in 2013
W wants R July 13
I start D. Jan 14.
Meet GF Nov 13
Have I changed enough? Jul 14

The World is still My Oyster!