I feel your pain Luke. However, one of the most important things that my DB coach taught me is how destructive anger is in these type of sitches. Yes, we feel it but it never really does any good to share it, it seems. I have reconciled with my H but only because I consciously let the anger at his leaving and putting me through such pain for a year go. Maybe you don't really care anymore but it really will likely do more harm than good to express toxicity. Just MHO. Take care. It does get better. Be the better man.
