Originally Posted By: lifejustgothard2

Interesting tho. I'm having some triggers right now because of the time of year. In November it will b 2 yrs since H came home. I suddenly would like to ask h a few questions. A few that never got answered. More just the timeline.
Is this a bad idea?


I don't think so, I think it's a good idea. Have you and your H been to RetroV? If not you should really consider it, it will give you tools that will allow 2-way communication like you've never had before. You should be comfortable enough in your communications with your H that you don't even have to ask the above, you just go to him and talk about it. RetroV can get you to that point, where you feel nothing is off-limits.

Originally Posted By: lifejustgothard2
Not to be rude...but this is partially why I quit posting about my sitch! Rarely any responses.


This forum gets very little traffic. You'd get more input on Newcomers (even though you're not one anymore).


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57