You're leaving for the States in a few hours. This would be a good time to regroup and gather your thoughts while you're in the States. This way, you can work with us here to plan and execute the next steps when you return to Sweden.
Meanwhile, you can inform your W before you leave for the States (today) that you will work with her on D, that you're sad about it and it isn't what you wanted. Any discussions on D details will have to wait until you get back to Sweden as you don't take this lightly. And zip your mouth. No more adding on to this. Short and simple. Stand your ground that you will not discuss the details until you return back home.
When you arrive in the States, study up on boundary setting by printing off worksheets from Google. You will have 4 weeks to do this before getting back to Sweden.
Oh and if there are any emails from W and you want to respond, my recommendation is for you to come here first before responding to W's emails. The vets can assist you with them. I've done it when I first came here and grizzled vets helped me out with my emails to Ms. Wonka.
