fotw - this is good spot to be in from a detached standpoint, but make sure you don't make any rash decisions based on emotions. I've heard and seen people talk many times how an LBS becomes a WAS.
I hit the point where you are about two weeks ago; and, similar to you, it was right after W broke down crying saying she loved me, and we should work on things, etc. Immediately afterwards she backed WAY off, and even now I'm sort of getting the silent treatment as well.
I think they let their heart show a little, and that vulnerability scares them, so they go into lock-down mode, hard.
