You asked if I'd had a chance to think. Well, here is how I see things, and you should know that I am very angry about this. I have been kind, generous, and respectful to you for the last 10 years. I have tried to rebuild our relationship again and again, in many different ways, but it seemed nothing was ever good enough. I have tolerated your having an affair. I've felt insulted, judged, and disrespected by how you have spoken to and treated me. Separating me nightly from our family was horrible. What do you think the kids thought? What did they learn? I did not appreciate learning from A**** that we were moving out in the spring.
I no longer want to be told that I have Asperger's, that my family is lousy, or that I am deficient in some manner. I am done with being treated and spoken to that way. If you cannot behave respectfully, then there is no point in our talking until you can.
I will always have warm feelings for you, believe it or not. I also feel like if you had put more effort into this, we would not be at this juncture. What a sad day our paths have lead to, what unnecessary pain and loss, what a legacy for the whole, forever broken, by your choice, family.
Your p-ss-- off husband, L.
Too many words. Lay off all the guilt, it makes you feel better for venting but it won't do anything to her accept make her angry and fog up.
M36 W31 S4 S2 T5 M4 BD Jan12 S July12 Recon Sep12-Nov12 ILBINILWY Jan13 OM x 2 in 2013 W wants R July 13 I start D. Jan 14. Meet GF Nov 13 Have I changed enough? Jul 14
