Thank you for your good thoughts and taking time for this. Well, at least there was no note this morning, no confrontation at 6am, no s*** to start the day.
That said, Acc, you are probably right. You did say I had nothing to lose a year ago - and I did not carry the ball further.
It is time to get angry. Maybe that will be my LRT. What did you think of the draft:
I have been kind, generous, and respectful to you for 10 years. I have tried to rebuild our relationship again and again, in many different ways. I have tolerated your having an affair. You have been insulting, judgmental, and disrespectful, and made me feel like c--p in the process. Well, I am done with your treatment. If you cannot behave, then there is no point in our talking. I will always have feelings for you. If you had put some effort into this, we would not be at this juncture. What a sad day our efforts have lead to, what unnecessary pain, what a gift to the whole family.
L
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.
