Is this dropping the rope? Did I make a mistake?

[DFE]

I found a card from H today. It really made me upset. It was sent to me less than two weeks before we separated. It said I love you. Thank you for being a great wife and friend. Wow. How does one go from that two asking for a divorce in less than two weeks? We got into a fight and he said poof I am done. Wow I had forgotten about the card.


H and I had no contact all weekend. He dropped the boys off Friday night and I didn't see him until this morning at the office. We didn't speak a word. He emailed me (yes as I am sitting in front of him) saying our child visitation arrangements aren't fair to him and that he wants to see the kids more often and maybe even overnight visitation. I said I wasn't ready for that as the kids need stability right now.

He then text me later tonight asking me why the kids hadn't called him and that I shouldn't keep them from him. I said I am not. If they ask to call you they are free to they just haven't asked. He got offended and it started an argument. I told him I was keeping them occupied because they are upset. He said you mean you are keeping them from me.

He later apologized and said he is just frustrated with the situation and for me to get him the separation agreement. I replied back saying why are you frustrated? This is exactly what you have wanted for years. You are finally rid of me.

I know I know. I could have left the last part out but I couldn't resist. I have dropped the rope and at times I look forward to meeting Mr. Right. The one who will treat me as I deserve. Then I look at my kids and know I want their family to stay together.