Dream interpretation is not an exact science because one item (i.e. baseball bat) can mean different things to different people depending on their situations and experience.
However, there are some messages that do come clear in the dream state.
For example, a woman wakes up feeling agitated after dreaming of her boyfriend standing on a pile of leaves or holding some leaves in his hands. She's picking up on the fact that her boyfriend is actually thinking about leaving her.
To me, in the dream of your W having a breast reduction could mean a number of things:
1) Reduced sense of self-worth 2) Reduced sense of self-importance 3) Reduced sense of self as your W hence the divorce in the attorney's office 4) W could have a skewed set of priorities
Not knowing what's going on with W, all you can do is acknowledge the dream and file it away.
Sometimes I've found that when I DO remember my dreams [I don't always do], I try to understand those messages and file them away. At a later time when something comes up or a situation comes to fruition, then I have an "ahhhhh" moment about my dream and piece it all together. In my case, they usually happen weeks or months later on.
