Funny moment: had my first dream about the W since BD.
In the dream we were in her solicitors office, with W wanting me to sign the divorce papers. The reason she gave for wanting the divorce was that she needed time off to recover from her breast reduction. WTF? My question to her was how the heck do you justify wanting a divorce because of a breast reduction, and then why the heck do you need a breast reduction.
Dreams can be so funny.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
That's a way of looking at the dream Wonka, can you expand on that more?
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
Dream interpretation is not an exact science because one item (i.e. baseball bat) can mean different things to different people depending on their situations and experience.
However, there are some messages that do come clear in the dream state.
For example, a woman wakes up feeling agitated after dreaming of her boyfriend standing on a pile of leaves or holding some leaves in his hands. She's picking up on the fact that her boyfriend is actually thinking about leaving her.
To me, in the dream of your W having a breast reduction could mean a number of things:
1) Reduced sense of self-worth 2) Reduced sense of self-importance 3) Reduced sense of self as your W hence the divorce in the attorney's office 4) W could have a skewed set of priorities
Not knowing what's going on with W, all you can do is acknowledge the dream and file it away.
Sometimes I've found that when I DO remember my dreams [I don't always do], I try to understand those messages and file them away. At a later time when something comes up or a situation comes to fruition, then I have an "ahhhhh" moment about my dream and piece it all together. In my case, they usually happen weeks or months later on.
That you for that Wonka. In regards to the breast reduction, she actually had one at age 16. Anyway, will file it away. It is very rare for me to remember dreams also.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
My question to her was how the heck do you justify wanting a divorce because of a breast reduction, and then why the heck do you need a breast reduction.
BWAAAHAAAHAA! Oh man, thank goodness I didn't have anything in my mouth because I would have spit it all over my computer when I read that! Classic!
Originally Posted By: Wonka
To me, in the dream of your W having a breast reduction could mean a number of things:
1) Reduced sense of self-worth 2) Reduced sense of self-importance 3) Reduced sense of self as your W hence the divorce in the attorney's office 4) W could have a skewed set of priorities
Not knowing what's going on with W, all you can do is acknowledge the dream and file it away.
Hi HWA. I followed you over from 2old's thread. I thought you were a bit quiet and wondered if you'd already gone on holiday. However I now know that your old thread was locked down At least I've found you again That dream was so funny It's as mad as the dreams I have about my H. I've had weird dreams about my H, but I can't remember any of them, lol. I get weird dreams full stop anyway
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
TTD180, holidays in 3 days time. Transfer info in less than 24 hours time.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
At least I've found you again