Thanks Cadet and KML I knew you were gonna post something.
I question this myself but after reading "I Do Again" it was relieving to know that sooo much wasn't about me and the misdirected emotions and the communication breakdown.
Although the book is about a woman who is WAS, I'd really like to understand what the hell I went through. I didn't know about DB and DR. I remember someone told be about it but called it divorce busters...that lead me to lawyer ads.
I've been mesmerised but this whole world of divorce. I'm reading the book "When happily ever after ends" It has refocused my whole spirituality and faith in God.
Which, is leading me to forgiveness. I even caught myself saying that "he did what he had to do."
thanks for caring.
M: 49 H: 49 S23 D24 (disabled from car accident 6 yrs ago) M: 21yrs BD: 1 month after D home from hospital (after 6 months) D: 3/11/11 Moved: 10/11/11 to FL for SCI recovery X: engaged w/OW