Originally Posted By: TryingToDo180
He's due back from his mini break on Weds, it's funny how I've been feeling more relaxed since he's been away smile Also with this new revelation of a possible OW it makes you able to detach easier smile

You know what they say - "out of sight, out of mind". I know they also say "absence makes the heart grow fonder" but so far I haven't seen any evidence of that in my H.

I found it so much easier to detach after H moved out. I've known about OW since BD so I can't really say that knowing, or suspecting, had any impact on detaching. Once my H moved out, I was able to relax more - no more walking on eggshells around him.


Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks