He's due back from his mini break on Weds, it's funny how I've been feeling more relaxed since he's been away Also with this new revelation of a possible OW it makes you able to detach easier
You know what they say - "out of sight, out of mind". I know they also say "absence makes the heart grow fonder" but so far I haven't seen any evidence of that in my H.
I found it so much easier to detach after H moved out. I've known about OW since BD so I can't really say that knowing, or suspecting, had any impact on detaching. Once my H moved out, I was able to relax more - no more walking on eggshells around him.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks