Thank God I found this community. W and i both 39 yrs old. Here's my such: W and I together for 20 years, married for 17. Basically a sex starved marriage for the last 10 yrs. 2 sons 12 & 10. W suggests MC in April, I agree, but we never follow thru. Lots of sex in June and she begins to withdraw from everything else. Facebook takes over her every waking moment. Loses 30 pounds, tanned, looking as good as the day we met. I'm suspicious, but enjoying the physical attention. My love language is overwhelmingly physical touch. July 10 I catch the texts from OM. She lies about length and extent. She drops ILYBINILWY. We see MC twice, she doesn't like it because "it's all about her." 2nd EA confirmed 9/13. She has been sexting at least 2 old HS friends. She is in a full on MLC. Even admits she's tired of responsibility, feels trapped, etc. I'm at my wits end. I love her dearly, but can't be a doormat for her MLC and multiple EA. Advice, support, guidance are appreciated.
JFun
Both 40 T-22 M-18 S13 S11
Bomb, ILYBINILWY-7/10/13 EA #1-confirmed 7/10/13, ongoing since 5/13 EA #2-9/13/13
