One giant leap forward! - Part 6

[Fartiltre]

T,

I get you and I just wanted to make sure that you’ve been through these thoughts.

I get your point in this boundary setting discussion. It’s hard setting a boundary if not impossible, if the penalty doesn’t exist. Be sure that this is not just something in your head.

Remember what you wrote in HWAs thread:

I spent 12 months doing things hoping it would create change in W. I was living for R with W. It's what a lot of the LBS does whether 20 vets tell them to or not.

I have found that with DB you don't understand the parts you are working on until you have moved through it.
That's why taking the vets advice is so important. If we could do it ourselves then why are we on here?

Are you looking for reasons NOT to go along with the VETs advice, are the points you make really fears that should be faced, are they for real, are you looking at your own sit the way you mentioned in HWAs thread – lot of possibilities.

Give it a thought!

T, this is - as always - truly well meant! I just want you to take a second look at things! I am not into starting a long discussion about this since you are so much more experienced than me. This is your call and yours alone - but you do have the VETs right there by your side!

F