Thanks! I need to get back to that book. I'm only 1/2 way finished.
Good thoughts. I wanted to answer her skype message, so I told her I'd add my thoughts to the FB message.
Yeah, it did give me pause. But, not as much as I would have expected. Maybe it's all the DBing practice, or because I am really starting to enjoy the time and work I've been putting into myself. I agree with your analysis about here motives. I don't get the sense that she's splitting her time with me for companionship and OM for... something more physical.... I just think she's being very cautious.
So, I did answer. Basically I told her I don't think she's awful because I know she wasn't just being selfish or cruel, that I know she was in a lot of pain and her needs were not being met. I agreed that the time and space is good for both of us and that I agree the proceedings should be stopped and we can take the time to figure it all out.
