JonF that was a very inspirational post for me It gives me hope and sees my back on the road to eventual R. This bit was especially poignant for me -
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If your spouse is in a WAS state of mind, coming back/reconciling is a monstrous mountain of pain - so it's easier to run away, avoid, find someone else, etc. By forcing the question, even if there is positive feelings, the WAS will choose to run away. You have to give a reason for them to want to climb that mountain.
It's similar to being the spouse only a fool would leave, but you've made it even more inspiring I'm not yet there yet, but I'm working on it, lol. 2old you know what to do, keep it up
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
It gives me hope and sees my back on the road to eventual R. This bit was especially poignant for me -
