Correct, you are reading too much into the situation. One of the golden rules of DBing is to believe none of what you hear and only half of what you see ( Sandi2 rule No.32 ). This new guy is a stop-gap, quick fix for a broken heart, nothing more.
The important thing for you is you. You need to start working on yourself. GAL!!! Nothing will be more attractive to your wife than a calm, confident, sorted guy. You need to be that man.
If you do decide to deliver in person, keep it brief and you make the decision when to leave. Definitely no relationship talk unless she instigates it and if so remember to validate.
Would be nice if some of the vets stopped by sometime soon. I'm more of a reader than a writer on here and my sitch has run it's course so I'm out of the loop somewhat. ( And still on moderation after more than 2 years!! Surely some kind of record )
Me 48 W 49 D19, S17, D14 Together 25yr, Married 22yr Me checked-out July 10, back Sept 10 W checked out Nov 10 Separated Dec 10 ILYBNILWY 2nd Apr 11 We're finished + D bomb 17th Apr 11
