We're in similar situations...though my kids are slightly older and we still live in the same house. I also found DB and got the books and the best thing I did to get phone coaching. I've only had one session thus far, but it will help you find direction. It may seem a bit expensive, but I think well worth it. When my wife sees the credit card bill she's gonna freak out, but what can she do? Leave me? That's already her plan. The phone coaching will help you refine your goals. The advice you get (or at least what I got) seemed a bit counter intuitive, but I'll danged if it didn't get results. Right now I am working on being a better me so I can be a great dad to my kids...the only person you can work on is yourself...be someone that people want to hang out with. Go and work on GAL and get a phone coach. I know it [censored] trying to put on a happy face when you feel like throwing up all the time, but you gotta do it for you and your kids...and then maybe the wife will follow.
M 42 W 43 D 10 S 6 M 13 T 15 Wife wants to separate and says our marriage is over 8/30/13 Trying telephone coaching
