Regardless, I'm dark. I may have to contact once at the end of the week because of divorce proceedings, but it'll be short, direct, and via email with no discussion. I feel good, detached, got through the worst of it. Our sons go to the same private school, and I even drove past her this morning, and was like, "Oh well."
Great, that's the frame of mind you want to stay in. Honestly I wouldn't be surprised if you post Sunday or Monday that your W never even brought it up all weekend, that would be typical. WAS's will often set some date up for a "big talk" and then when the date arrives they develop amnesia. It's best to just continue your DB'ing and have no expectations that a talk will even take place.
